Most evenings at our house are occupied by relaxing in our lower level area, sometimes with the TV on, sometimes not. We read, watch TV, do puzzles of various kinds, finish up some indoor job that we didn’t get done earlier (laundry, dishes, etc), and generally wind down, so to speak, at the end of the day.
The 10pm news is usually the last thing on the TV, unless a
football or basketball game that we want to see is still going…then it is
turned off. The wife continues her
reading, sewing, or puzzle-solving for awhile, and I many times will go to
YouTube for a short time before retiring for the night.
“YouTube?” you say.
“What would you be watching on YouTube at 10:30 at night?”
As is with much of what one finds on the internet,
there is much that is good and much that is not so good on YouTube. I’ve chosen to absorb a sort of eccentric
collection of video topics ranging from classical music to high school choirs &
orchestras to courtroom videos (the Caught in Providence videos with Judge
Caprio) as well as secret Santa and surprise squad videos (Google “surprise
squad” if you aren’t sure what that is).
In between are Gaither homecoming videos, the occasional “On
the Road with Steve Hartman” segments produced by CBS News, Bible Project
videos, Sandy Patti, Statler Brothers, and other southern gospel videos, the
occasional aria from Handel’s Messiah, and…well…the list could go on, but you
get the idea.
I’ve chosen to watch videos at that time of day which will
uplift and soothe my soul. Music that
takes me to a better spiritual place. Events
and activities which encourage and show the good sides of humanity. Stories which demonstrate the best in the
human spirit and provide a foundation for life and living. Stories which let me know that all is not the
doom and gloom as portrayed on the news; that there are things more important
than politics and ideology. Yes, I watch
the news at 10 pm because I think it’s important to be aware of what’s going on
in the community, the nation, and the world.
But I don’t need to retire for the night with the negative bent of the
news on my mind.
Then, after viewing some videos, as I go upstairs I usually
go outside into the front yard. Even
when it’s really cold outside in the winter, I like to step outside for just a
moment, take in the atmosphere, look up at the sky, and survey the
neighborhood. The stars above let me
know that there’s much, much more to life than just the day to day
routine. The neighborhood reminds me of
the incredible blessings that have come our way over the years. The air…crunchy cold, warm & sticky, or
with the scent of spring or fall in it, remind me of the brief span of life and
the promise of something better when this life is over.
Sometimes, if the weather is especially disagreeable, I
think of those we often meet downtown at the church building who are staying
outside in the weather because they have no home. Many of them have a mental illness or some
kind of disability which prevents them from doing what is necessary to live
inside. I wonder how they are getting
along and whether or not they have found some temporary shelter from the rain,
snow, or wind.
Following all of this, the wife is usually finished with her
nightly routine, and it’s relatively easy for me to do my bedtime business, put
on my CPAP, and drift off for the night.
I don’t know why I got into the routine of going outside, but it works
for me. I even try to do the “going
outdoors” thing if I’m not at home, if at all possible. I can’t always access YouTube, but I can
usually get outside wherever I may be.
I don’t know what your routine is at night. However, I am reminded of what that great
apostle Paul said long ago about what should be on one’s mind. Here’s what he said in his letter to the Philippian
church long ago. “whatever is true,
whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely,
whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such
things.”
You will hear all kinds of things, both uplifting and
depressing. But choose to dwell…to dwell…on
the true, the noble, the pure, the admirable, the excellent. I think you’ll find that your overall attitude
will be better, your overall health will be better, and you will be more
content.
Blessings,
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