Good morning and welcome to this Thursday’s thought.
Pollard is up and around, and is recovering well. There had been some difficulty in finding a
heart of the proper size, as Pollard is a big man at six feet eleven
inches. One was found, however, and he
is getting a new lease on life, thanks to a donor whose identity has not been
made public.
I’ve not had a transplant.
So I don’t know the answers to the questions I’m about to ask. But I have to wonder if these thoughts go
through the minds of those who HAVE received a transplant, whether a heart, a
kidney, or some other body part.
In the midst of the joy of a new lease on life must surely
come the realization that someone else has died, at least in terms of a heart
transplant. And that were it not for
that death, the recipient of the transplant may well not be alive or have much
of a future. One life traded for
another, so to speak.
Yes, I know that the life that ended did so inevitably. That there was no cure…no recourse…no chance
for survival. But I have to wonder how
the transplant recipient thinks about that reality, and if she or he does, to what
extent. And if so, how that reality
colors the joy of a new life. Are there
periods of reflection, sadness, gratitude?
Does the recipient really understand the gravity and “life-and-death” of
it all?
I also have to wonder if the recipient has a greater sense
of service and “paying it forward,” as it were, knowing that either the donor
or his family made a conscious decision to give…to give something a precious as
life…to another whom they would never know.
I know that acts of service and generosity many times trigger at least a
temporary increase of the same in the lives of those served. I have to wonder if a transplant changes how
a person thinks regarding service and generosity, especially the kind of
generosity that demands extraordinary sacrifice of some kind, such as organ
donation.
In short, does a transplant cause a fundamental change in
the recipient’s outlook on life? Is that
person different in ways that are not only easily noticed, but permanent in
nature? And what are the recipient’s
views on meeting the family of the one who gave the organ? What would one say to the family, or to the
person who donated, should that person be living? What kinds of emotions would course through
one’s soul at that moment?
I am grateful that I have not had to experience that kind of
thing. And in any event, I am old enough
that such a thing would not be a medical possibility for me. But Scot Pollard is not yet 50 years
old. He has a lot of life left, if his
new heart keeps working without being rejected, and all else is good. And he is not alone. Transplants of various kinds…hearts, lungs,
kidneys, livers, and so on are more and more common. And there are better anti-rejection
medications now than there were some years ago, resulting in fewer
complications.
Medical science has come a long way over the years, and I’m
sure will continue to progress in ways we can only imagine now. But along with that progression, we need to
keep in mind that we are treating human beings…people…individuals. These people have another side to their
makeup besides their physiology. People
are emotional, thoughtful, and cognizant.
We have hearts (not of the physical variety, but of the emotional kind),
souls, and minds. What is done in a
physical way affects other areas of life and living. And I would think that the recipient of new
life through a transplant gift would be especially affected.
Thanks for listening.
Life can be complicated, even without all of the externals of politics,
the world situation, and the various trials and tribulations that we see. But that’s also one of the great things about
life and living. We aren’t robots. We aren’t just existing. Life has meaning and purpose. And for that, I am most grateful.
I never answered my questions, but that’s OK. Good things to think about even if you have
never experienced something like a heart transplant. Humanity could use a good dose of humility,
gratefulness, and generosity about now.
Thanks for listening.
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