Good morning.
Sometimes, we are able to provide some
kind of help for a need. Other times the
need is beyond what we are able to work with.
Or it could be that what we have to offer is not what they have need of.
Regardless of whether we are able to
help or not, I always try to engage in conversation, asking about their current
situation. I try to keep the
conversation centered on them, encouraging them to talk about both the
difficulties they face as well as some of the better parts of their daily
lives. Most people usually respond
positively to the conversation, and several have thanked me for just listening,
even when we couldn’t help them in a material way.
One commonality I have noticed over
the years in the lives of these people is the incredible difficulties they have
in just getting through the day or week. Living on the edge requires hard, difficult
work. It is physically, mentally, and
emotionally draining. It is
complicated. It is demanding.
Accessing whatever services that may
be provided can be a mountain to climb rather than a molehill to step
over. They have to fill out forms…mostly
online now…ask for an appointment time with a caseworker…and somehow find
transportation to and from the appointment.
They may eventually be approved.
They may be denied. They may need
additional information that they don’t have readily available…a birth
certificate, a government ID or the like.
They are put on waiting lists. They stand in lines. They have multiple needs and multiple issues
to address. They may have children who need
constant supervision. They need to find
food, deal with a landlord who won’t fix the plumbing, enroll the kids in
school and somehow find clothing and school supplies for them, obtain diapers
and formula for an infant, and not miss a court date on the protection from
abuse order they want issued to an ex. And in the middle of all of this, they are
expected to stand in line, spend hours on the hold on the phone, and navigate
the sometimes incredibly complex world of government and even non-profit services. I am amazed at the resilience of many of
these people.
I was recently visiting with an
immigration attorney in Wichita. I asked
her if she could quantify in just a few words the state and status of
immigration in the nation. She looked at
me for a second, then she said three words.
“Confusing,” “complicated,” and “exhausting.” I have no idea what it is like to work with
immigration issues and the fact that the law is in many respects anything but
clear and concise, but I do know that besides those descriptors, if someone
uses legal services, it’s also expensive.
My guess is that relatively few who need an attorney can actually afford
one at the standard rates.
If
you are living a life of relative comfort…if you don’t have to stand in
line, waiting to see a caseworker…if you have food in your house adequate for
your needs…if you have decent transportation, a roof over your head that
doesn’t leak, Tylenol on the shelf for your minor aches and pains, plumbing
that works as it should, transportation to get you to the doctor and
supermarket, and clothing that is clean, you need to drop to your knees and
thank God for the blessings.
And as soon as you get off your knees,
determine what you may be able to do to make someone else’s day a little
better. What you may be able to do to
make your corner of the world a little brighter and pleasant. What you may be able to do to ease someone’s
burden just a little.
And don’t let a judgmental attitude
take over your thoughts when you see someone who is unhoused, someone driving
an old, beat-up car, an older man on a bicycle with a wagon attached that has
all of his worldly belongings on it, or someone who is using a food card to get
groceries. There but for the grace of
God, that person could be you.
And understand that word “grace.” A better way to say that sentence would be,
“There but for the totally free and unmerited favor of God, favor that has
nothing to do with who you are or what you’ve done, but rather was given you by
God’s choice and pleasure, that person could be you.” In other words, you did nothing…you could do
nothing…to earn or deserve God’s favor.
You’re no more or no less “special” in God’s eyes than the homeless
woman on the street corner who is asking for your loose change.
Think about that this week.
Blessings,