The holiday that opens up the summer season is over. Memorial Day is usually considered the start
of summer activities. Swimming pools
open, graduations are over, many schools are out for the summer, and folks are
planning vacations, trips, and get-togethers.
The weather is turning warmer and more summer-like. Wheat in the grain belt is ripening and
plants in the garden are flourishing in the warmth and rain.
Memorial Day, of course, is more than the herald of summer. It has become a three-day holiday of boating,
picnics, and travel, but also solidly remains a day of remembrance…of war and
peace, sacrifice and duty. A remembrance
of family and friend, ancestor and contemporary. We stop if even for a few moments in the
peace of the cemetery and remember those who have gone before us.
For many of us, a visit to the cemetery once a year is an
anticipated, yet tentative task. At the
cemetery where the Planks are mostly interred, we take a look around to see the
newly dug sites and check to see whose body may be at rest there. Most of the time we know who it is since we
come from a small, rural area and the cemetery is a rural church cemetery.
Sometimes, we already knew of that person’s passing. Sometimes, though, we are surprised to learn
of the passing of an old friend or distant relative. And sometimes we look at the newer, but not
very recent grave sites and remember again the passing of someone we once knew
about, but it had slipped our minds over the past year.
Those kinds of slips of the mind, I’m afraid, will become
more and more common; not just regarding those who have died and gone before
us. But rather in many other ways, we
will one time know something, then a year or more later “learn” of it again. We will then remember back to when we first
heard of it and criticize ourselves for forgetting.
And then, as if the holiday weekend had a split personality,
we get together with family and friends.
We barbeque. We go boating and
camping. We fish and hike and eat and
visit. We enjoy the company of
others. We reminisce and catch up. We travel.
The whole three day weekend seems busier and more filled with events and
“stuff” to do than any normal work day or week.
And so it goes (to borrow a phrase). I have to wonder what someone who might come
from another galaxy, and who watches what we do here on earth might have to say
about how we do things. Nevertheless,
the way we do things IS the way we do things.
And if we really didn’t like it, we’d change, I suppose. So here’s to the human body, soul and spirit,
created by God and endowed with amazing capabilities of thought, reason, and
emotion. We are indeed an enigmatic
creation, but in many ways wouldn’t have it any other way.
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