Good morning and welcome. Let me tell you a true story.
I noticed that the outside office door bell
had rung, which wasn't unusual. Most
deliveries, church members, and others come to that door in order to be let in
or conduct some kind of business. Marria
answered the door via telephone, then came to my office telling me that a man
was at the door wanting to use the phone.
She asked if I might know the man.
I went to the door and opened it to a man I
didn’t know who was clean, but rather rough-looking. I'll call him Alan. I asked Alan what he needed, and he explained
that he needed to use the phone to call his parole officer. He said he had been to the library, city
hall, the county courthouse, the jail, and a couple of churches. No one would let him use the phone.
Alan said he had just been released from El
Dorado corrections early that morning, and was supposed to report to his parole
officer in Salina, but had missed his bus connection to Salina. He needed to contact his officer to let her
know where he was.
I don't know how I make these decisions,
but in that 45 or so second conversation, I determined he was probably safe,
and let him in to the outer office where there are chairs and an end
table. We have an older-style portable
phone connected to our system that someone like Alan can use, so I got it for
him.
He had several papers with him, along with
a boarding pass for the Beeline bus from
Wichita to Salina...the bus had left at shortly after 8am that day. There were several numbers on those papers,
so we tried calling the ones we thought would be helpful. One was in Topeka. One in Salina. One in Wichita, and a couple of others were
on those papers as well. The Salina
number was the best option, but no one answered the phone. Other numbers resulted in either voicemail or
being put in a, “Press 2 for …., Press 3 for..., and so on.” None of them yielded any help.
While Alan and I were trying to formulate
our next move, I asked if he would like something to eat. We have some snack-type food in the office,
so I gave him some of that and some water.
He also needed the restroom.
Sometimes even the restroom is a blessing.
It seemed obvious to me that the gentleman
was really trying to do the right thing by contacting his parole officer. While we were working with the phone and
numbers, I found out that Alan was taken from El Dorado corrections early in
the day and dropped off at the Wichita bus station...the OLD bus station that
now sits empty. Alan wasn't from
Wichita, had never been here, and had no clue where he was to go or what he was
to do. He had no idea where the new bus
station was, so he began to wander the streets downtown asking for help or a
phone. He received no help that he told
me about.
So, later in the day, just a couple of
blocks from the library, Alan found RiverWalk Church. His bus had left hours ago, and he was no
longer needing to get to the bus terminal, but rather had to contact his parole
officer if possible. We continued to try
numbers, and eventually re-dialed the Salina number. The Salina parole officer who Alan was
supposed to report to answered the phone this time.
Alan tried to explain the situation to
her. However, as he was missing several
teeth, his speech wasn't clear. I
suggested to Alan that I visit with the parole officer. He agreed and handed me the phone. After explaining who I was and what the
situation with Alan was, she got her supervisor, putting him on speaker
phone. I also put our phone on speaker
so Alan could hear us all. While we were
talking, the supervisor tried to contact the Wichita parole office, but was
unsuccessful. They suggested that we
hang up while they continue to try to find a solution for Alan, who had no
place to go that night and no way to get to Salina.
A few minutes later, the Wichita parole
office called us and said that they would be picking Alan up and taking him to
the Rescue Mission for the night. The
Salina parole office then called back a couple of minutes later telling me they
had contacted the Wichita parole office.
They told me the same thing and further explained that they had arranged
for someone to get Alan the next morning and take him to Salina. They also spoke directly to Alan, telling him
about the arrangements.
In a few minutes two parole officers came
to the church and got Alan. He took his
leftover snacks and went to their car. I
followed him, thanked the officers for their service, shook Alan's hand, gave
him a side hug, and he departed with them.
I will tell you that I was unable by church
policy to take Alan to the mission. I
cannot give someone a ride that I do not know, for obvious safety reasons. I will say that Curtis, our lead minister,
told me while I was waiting for the Salina parole office to call back that he
and I could both go to the mission with Alan as a passenger if needed. I agreed, but suggested we allow the parole
office to find a solution if at all possible.
And they did.
There are some takeaways about this story
I'd like to share.
First, why did they drop Alan off at an
empty, dark, and obviously vacated building that used to be a bus
terminal? What kind of person does that?
Second, Alan should have been able to have
visited with a live person who could have provided real help and assurance
after just a couple of phone calls. That
was not the case, and his frustration was evident.
Third, why was it so difficult for Alan to
find a phone he could use? Why were
those he encountered while he wandered the streets of Wichita not more helpful?
Obviously, I don't have the answers to
these questions, and it all seemed to work out in the end. Once we were able to speak to a live person,
things starting moving and Alan was taken care of.
I guess my other question would be, what
would Alan have done had we not opened our door to him and let him use the
phone? What if I hadn't assured the
Salina parole officer of Alan's desire to do the right thing? What if he had been left to navigate this
situation on his own?
I don't know what he was in prison
for. I didn't ask and he didn't
volunteer. He was, however, obviously
grateful for our help. And I'm grateful
we were there to help, thanks to the RiverWalk congregation who finances the
office and the staff through the weekly collection. May we always glorify God in our dealings
with others.
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